沒關係,我變心了(沒愛的粉紅戲總讓人心疼!) - 韓劇

By Charlie
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OK....首先這一篇以懺悔為開頭的心得文
原本以為我會賴在肖健的病房不走
而且這一齣我之前看過前兩集就追不下去(當時命中病毒太強)
但因為我個人對命中最後一集的結局安排無感
(諸位病友原諒我...別噓我)
可能是因為11-18集的劇本都寫得很好
感覺最後兩集的述說水準有一點落差
於是在追完命中後沒有太強的失落
但又沒有引人的新劇可以填補時間
於是又開始回頭追這一部
(以下心得有雷喔....請小心....)
我必須老實說...即使回頭看
第三集和第四集還是有點硬撐
覺得海秀情緒很陰晴不定 宰烈我行我素的很討厭
精神科治療與精神症狀的描述太過簡化和美化(沒辦法...會受到職業的影響)
所以還是有一搭沒一搭的看
一直到第四集末
海秀看著手機錄影愉悅的表情
卻穿插宰烈獨自跑步與對話的神情
忽然間....有種情緒默默被勾起來
我很難說清楚那是甚麼
好像人生一樣
當你開始享受一些快樂時
其實背後也參雜著一些灰色的陰暗
第五集我想應該是第一個大轉折(因為我也只看到這)
海秀在劇末發現宰烈有睡在廁所的習慣
這邊我很愛編劇的安排
海秀發現時沒有多說甚麼
只是淡淡的說該走了 並在廁所外等待
那是一種關懷阿!!! 而不是八卦的窺探
後來宰烈自己娓娓道來童年被繼父毆打的慘澹過往
並笑著說自己跳下糞坑的決定
之後 那就成為他安全感的所在
我突然驚覺
其實我們所有的行為或是精神症狀
即使在他人看來是多麼的不合理
但...可能對當事人來說
是一種安全感的來源
那是他當初能棲身的唯一選擇
但比較麻煩的是
是事過境遷後 環境已經不一樣了
我們是否還緊抓著這個自認的唯一不放手呢??
而阻斷了自己前進的可能
後來兩人到湖邊
宰烈再不顧海秀的抗議下
把她丟入湖水中 享受大自然與湖水的清澈
不知道為什麼
這邊我非常的感動
海秀用她的理解 包容了宰烈的躲避恐懼行為
宰烈用他的大膽 破解了海秀的膽小與過份小心
兩人就在交會的這一刻
用彼此的方式安慰彼此
每個人在成長中都會受傷
但也因為這樣
我們才有被他人療傷或是治癒他人心傷的可能啊
真的沒關係...即使受傷的話
因為是愛情啊!!!!
PS:希望第五集後可以更好看 這集我數度哽咽阿
PS2: OST素質很高 曲風非常多元...讚
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原本以為我會賴在肖健的病房不走
而且這一齣我之前看過前兩集就追不下去(當時命中病毒太強)
但因為我個人對命中最後一集的結局安排無感
(諸位病友原諒我...別噓我)
可能是因為11-18集的劇本都寫得很好
感覺最後兩集的述說水準有一點落差
於是在追完命中後沒有太強的失落
但又沒有引人的新劇可以填補時間
於是又開始回頭追這一部
(以下心得有雷喔....請小心....)
我必須老實說...即使回頭看
第三集和第四集還是有點硬撐
覺得海秀情緒很陰晴不定 宰烈我行我素的很討厭
精神科治療與精神症狀的描述太過簡化和美化(沒辦法...會受到職業的影響)
所以還是有一搭沒一搭的看
一直到第四集末
海秀看著手機錄影愉悅的表情
卻穿插宰烈獨自跑步與對話的神情
忽然間....有種情緒默默被勾起來
我很難說清楚那是甚麼
好像人生一樣
當你開始享受一些快樂時
其實背後也參雜著一些灰色的陰暗
第五集我想應該是第一個大轉折(因為我也只看到這)
海秀在劇末發現宰烈有睡在廁所的習慣
這邊我很愛編劇的安排
海秀發現時沒有多說甚麼
只是淡淡的說該走了 並在廁所外等待
那是一種關懷阿!!! 而不是八卦的窺探
後來宰烈自己娓娓道來童年被繼父毆打的慘澹過往
並笑著說自己跳下糞坑的決定
之後 那就成為他安全感的所在
我突然驚覺
其實我們所有的行為或是精神症狀
即使在他人看來是多麼的不合理
但...可能對當事人來說
是一種安全感的來源
那是他當初能棲身的唯一選擇
但比較麻煩的是
是事過境遷後 環境已經不一樣了
我們是否還緊抓著這個自認的唯一不放手呢??
而阻斷了自己前進的可能
後來兩人到湖邊
宰烈再不顧海秀的抗議下
把她丟入湖水中 享受大自然與湖水的清澈
不知道為什麼
這邊我非常的感動
海秀用她的理解 包容了宰烈的躲避恐懼行為
宰烈用他的大膽 破解了海秀的膽小與過份小心
兩人就在交會的這一刻
用彼此的方式安慰彼此
每個人在成長中都會受傷
但也因為這樣
我們才有被他人療傷或是治癒他人心傷的可能啊
真的沒關係...即使受傷的話
因為是愛情啊!!!!
PS:希望第五集後可以更好看 這集我數度哽咽阿
PS2: OST素質很高 曲風非常多元...讚
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