看到今天對慧心正男的感想 - 三立
By Michael
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每個人的生長環境和經歷都不同 看事情的角度也會不一樣
就我的角度來說 我是比較同情正男
請大家和平、理性、愛歹丸(?)
以上
先不論慧心從李家千金到水果的女兒這種身分上的落差以及知道真相後的衝擊
“就慧心在陳家的20年”來說
我完全不覺得她不幸
她就是生長在一般很普通很平常的家庭裡阿
她這樣就不幸的話那我身邊不幸的人也太多了吧
當然窮到流離失所三餐不濟要靠拾荒行乞維生就真的很慘
但是慧心家也看不出有慘到這地步
家寶也說當初撿慧心回來的時候家裡經濟情況已經比較好了
在一個兩個小孩已經上學需要學費(以當時年紀推斷上小學了)
還行有餘力再帶一個回來養
他們家也只比一般的家庭再拮据一點辛苦一點而已吧
再來是慧心上大學的那件事
如果今天是編
“因為慧心從小要幫忙擺攤分擔家計當哥哥都在讀書的時候
她還要幫忙媽媽賣水果無法好好念書所以無法念到大學”
這樣我就覺得她沒辦法上大學要放棄學業真的有點可憐
可是今天她沒辦法上大學的理由就只有一句"沒錢"帶過
雖然三立國是三立國 台灣是台灣啦
現在都有就學貸款 以慧心的家境還可以申請清寒補助
所以以一句”沒錢就無法念大學”難以說服我
我同學她家也是擺攤維生經濟不穩定 還不是三個小孩申請貸款念到大學
也有朋友家裡工廠沒生意 所以她自己打工負擔自己的生活費 不拿家裡一毛錢
而我自己有申請過清寒補助
如果她真的想讀書 以秀琴家寶疼慧心的情況來看
陳家是真的窮到她不幫忙打零工家裡沒那份收入就活不下去
還是其實自己也沒有很強的慾望念所以就以沒錢為理由不去念大學?
所以對我來說我不會覺得慧心沒上大學很慘很不幸很可憐
再來是正男…………………
雖然她是李家(假)千金
有很多很多錢 但我真的覺得她很不幸
我真的真的覺得寄人籬下是很恐怖的一件事
寄人籬下就已經夠悲慘了還被養母敵視就更慘
如果她只在乎錢就算了 偏偏她又想得到母愛 慘上加慘又更慘
我是覺的說正男只愛錢對她有些不公平
如果她真的只愛錢的話 那她2X年來又怎會過的這麼痛苦 這麼想得到李家的認同?
雖然說李家的其他人也疼她 但是那種母親的疼愛是別人可以輕易取代的嗎?
再傳會提醒正男 女生不要吃太多冰 幫她算日期燉四物給她喝嗎?
他會和正男研究哪一牌內衣比較好穿哪一牌衛生棉比較好用嗎?
他會逛街看到一件衣服很漂亮 然後覺得我女兒穿很好看買下來給她嗎?
以屁華對正男的態度 只怕正男在需要媽媽的每一個時刻她都無視漠視正男吧
再說李家疼正男也只是順便 又沒真的把她當作自己人疼入心
和文星比對一下就知道
文星鬧一下阿公就說不會因為李記讓文星放棄他的幸福
結果下一幕要正男去求CEO 正男的婚事就管她去死就對了=3=
三口組和正男做的事都很過分
三口組一家做錯事搶權狀現在還不是在李家過得好好的
正男做錯事馬上就斷絕關係趕離李家
這種差別待遇實在……
今天正男做錯是受報應是她活該自做自受
我覺得她慘是對比也做錯事的三口組 正男下場是斷絕關係趕出李家
這種反差讓人更為正男在李家付出的2X年感到不值
雖然我家沒太多錢 逛不起百貨公司
但是我和我媽逛菜市場的時候我真的覺得很幸福
我媽想煮宮保雞丁的時候我可以跟她凹我就是想吃咖哩雞
她煮了我不愛吃的菜我可以直接說我不喜歡
我都不知道自己生病了她卻一眼就可以看出我發燒
做專題做到要死要活天昏地暗打通電話訴苦一下
隔天她就提雞湯到我宿舍了
(打到這邊我哭了 媽媽我愛您>/////////////<)
所以如果要我選有很多錢可以逛百貨公司買名牌包卻沒人疼愛
還要受到母親的精神虐待 要做到最好最完美來保障自己在家裡的地位
還是選家裡沒那麼有錢卻有母親和哥哥無微不至的關懷和疼寵
就算你不是最好的最完美的他們也不會放棄你
就我而言 我會覺得第二種比第一種幸福一百倍
所以就以慧心和正男的成長過程來看 我覺得正男真的很慘
像她陷害天誠那邊我真的覺得她太過火了
我心疼她的遭遇可憐她一切所以會站在她那邊
她做的事不可原諒 但可以理解她會這麼做的心態
我覺得碧華很可憐 有個女兒流落在外生死不明真的是很大的煎熬
但她錯在把自己的疏忽怪罪在正男頭上
以我自己照顧小孩的經驗(現在三歲&五歲的小堂弟堂妹)
三歲的小孩如果番起來真的要出門玩我這個都2X歲的堂姐還真的鎮不住
也不能強制抱起來綁起來關起來
只是堂姊而以又不能打她罵她 她真的想出門也只能跟著她出去啊
更何況當時正男才幾歲 自己家裡沒有大人看住兩個小孩
還敢事後將罪過怪在正男頭上
所以我同情碧華失去女兒這2X年來的煎熬
但是我還是討厭她=3=
另外會比較不喜歡的慧心的另一個理由
是因為生活中我真的很討厭這一種人
也許她真的無辜單純神經大條
就因為她無辜單純神經大條
所以她就算做了錯事也不會受到太大的苛責
因為她不是故意的 她沒有要搶別人男朋友 她沒有要傷害別人的想法
但是她的所做所為傷害到別人是事實
你還不能罵她打她責怪她
別人還覺得是你敏感多心想太多心眼太小心胸太狹窄咧
吃了悶虧也無處吐苦水
我是覺得如果我男友身邊有這種女同事還真的還滿可怕的orz
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