最棒的離婚ep9 - 日劇
By Tom
at 2013-03-10T14:43
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坂元實在太厲害,只用幾句話就幫前8集的光生漂白了
(以下防雷)
這集我的心得重點畫在四人對談的地方
其實,我一直都不是結夏派
比起版上大多數傾向結夏,認為灯里是心機重的女人
我反而欣賞灯里的從容,無論是不是她裝出來的...
或許是我跟灯里一樣,都是表面上冷靜,
卻不知何時會爆發、是個會讓別人不安的人吧
然而,看到結夏時卻更不能容忍
大概自己跟結夏更相似吧...
嘴硬、我行我素(my pace)、不善家事、得過且過之類種種
如果說婚姻就是互相忍讓
那麼光生和結夏的婚姻則是互相挑戰對方的極限
明明兩個人都清楚對方的地雷
卻一踩再踩
而,離婚的時候不是因為"再也不能容忍對方"
而是"再也無法面對這樣的自己"
光生和結夏就像是兩塊硬碰硬的石頭
彼此的稜角不但沒有越磨越平,
反而製造了更多畸零
結夏說:
「濱崎先生做事井井有條,紺野小姐做事可靠,兩個人很相配阿。」
灯里說:
「濱崎先生一身疲憊的下班時,你有對他說一句辛苦了嗎?
明明不善交際,卻辛苦地在外工作
打掃環境、洗衣服、做便當都是自己來
他有什麼理由被責備
他就是那種個性的男人」
當灯里點出了光生眾多缺點中的優點
苗頭好像指向了結夏
說她是個不懂體諒、只認為自己最好的人
其實,在說這番話的同時
灯里也表達出自己的意向了
她看的透徹、是非分明
但是
在愛情中沒有人是冷靜的
光生對灯里來說也不過是個可放可收的男子
而那個她深深不能原諒的、
看不見他的優點,只一再放大他的缺點的人──上原 諒
不就是結夏對光生、光生對結夏那樣嗎?
當你難以原諒對方,自己受的委屈耿耿於懷之時
那個人在你心中才是真實地有重量的...
都是自私的人,卻都是愛著的
沒有人是完美的,沒有人是因為"條件契合"就應該在一起的
只是因為愛著、痛著,才知道難以放手的那個人
就是比自己更重要的人
才會第一個提分手/離婚
"不能夠再讓這樣的自己去傷害他了"
所以選擇傷害自己,做一回最傻的傻子
然而,離婚卻不是最糟的結局
糟的是你和對方朝夕相處卻無關愛情
若離婚是讓自己更看清楚心之所向,再無悔恨
那麼,這就是最棒的離婚了!
--
(以下防雷)
這集我的心得重點畫在四人對談的地方
其實,我一直都不是結夏派
比起版上大多數傾向結夏,認為灯里是心機重的女人
我反而欣賞灯里的從容,無論是不是她裝出來的...
或許是我跟灯里一樣,都是表面上冷靜,
卻不知何時會爆發、是個會讓別人不安的人吧
然而,看到結夏時卻更不能容忍
大概自己跟結夏更相似吧...
嘴硬、我行我素(my pace)、不善家事、得過且過之類種種
如果說婚姻就是互相忍讓
那麼光生和結夏的婚姻則是互相挑戰對方的極限
明明兩個人都清楚對方的地雷
卻一踩再踩
而,離婚的時候不是因為"再也不能容忍對方"
而是"再也無法面對這樣的自己"
光生和結夏就像是兩塊硬碰硬的石頭
彼此的稜角不但沒有越磨越平,
反而製造了更多畸零
結夏說:
「濱崎先生做事井井有條,紺野小姐做事可靠,兩個人很相配阿。」
灯里說:
「濱崎先生一身疲憊的下班時,你有對他說一句辛苦了嗎?
明明不善交際,卻辛苦地在外工作
打掃環境、洗衣服、做便當都是自己來
他有什麼理由被責備
他就是那種個性的男人」
當灯里點出了光生眾多缺點中的優點
苗頭好像指向了結夏
說她是個不懂體諒、只認為自己最好的人
其實,在說這番話的同時
灯里也表達出自己的意向了
她看的透徹、是非分明
但是
在愛情中沒有人是冷靜的
光生對灯里來說也不過是個可放可收的男子
而那個她深深不能原諒的、
看不見他的優點,只一再放大他的缺點的人──上原 諒
不就是結夏對光生、光生對結夏那樣嗎?
當你難以原諒對方,自己受的委屈耿耿於懷之時
那個人在你心中才是真實地有重量的...
都是自私的人,卻都是愛著的
沒有人是完美的,沒有人是因為"條件契合"就應該在一起的
只是因為愛著、痛著,才知道難以放手的那個人
就是比自己更重要的人
才會第一個提分手/離婚
"不能夠再讓這樣的自己去傷害他了"
所以選擇傷害自己,做一回最傻的傻子
然而,離婚卻不是最糟的結局
糟的是你和對方朝夕相處卻無關愛情
若離婚是讓自己更看清楚心之所向,再無悔恨
那麼,這就是最棒的離婚了!
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