求婚大作戰 落跑新娘是浪漫還是劈腿? - 日劇
By Susan
at 2013-04-22T00:41
at 2013-04-22T00:41
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緣起:本片的制作技巧與內涵真的非常棒,卻因為劇情有道德等爭議也讓很多人看不清作
者想表達的東西,那並不是與愛情有關的感動,而是一種對人生反思後的難過與興奮…
☆ 你認為,落跑新娘到底是浪漫?亦或是殘忍!?
故事內容:
健:「真心覺得,能讓她幸福的,只有我一個。 」
健:「為什麼命運總是這麼悲傷?人們在想要變得幸福的時候,為什麼非要讓別人變得不
幸呢? 」
我的看法:
如果,禮真正最愛的人是健三,就這麼放走她,對健三、她、老師來講是不是太過殘忍?
在這個假設下,落跑新娘選擇了青梅竹馬是正確的,而別的影片中劈腿後選擇第三者也會
是正確的…
然而這裡有個問題是,禮怎麼知道自己最愛的人是誰呢!?禮又怎麼能預測結婚後對方會
不會變呢!?就像「給茱麗葉的信」片中的女主角,她有沒有想過:「眼前這個看似全心
聽我說話的人,在上床後就會變成跟現任男友一樣對她不再感興趣了!?這一切都無法預
測,所以我們無法立即判斷落跑新娘的對錯。
但若從女孩對人生下的賭注來看,我相信她的做法是對的!她判斷現任的男人不能給她想
要的愛,因此將賭注轉移到別人身上,至少還有機會中大獎呀!!當然這要冒著「發現比
現任更爛」的風險,總之,一個人對人生下了什麼賭注,哪有對錯之分呢…,而被背叛的
人呀,請願賭服輸吧…
結論:
我會尊重所有人的選擇,我也會願賭服輸,更重要的,我希望將來的自己成為最棒的大獎
,總是能在對方需要時給她溫暖,讓她開心,不会像「給茱麗葉的信」中男主角一樣,因
為工作,而冷落了生命中最重要的寶貝~
附上本片其他心得與網誌版:http://goo.gl/kLYtb
--
者想表達的東西,那並不是與愛情有關的感動,而是一種對人生反思後的難過與興奮…
☆ 你認為,落跑新娘到底是浪漫?亦或是殘忍!?
故事內容:
健:「真心覺得,能讓她幸福的,只有我一個。 」
健:「為什麼命運總是這麼悲傷?人們在想要變得幸福的時候,為什麼非要讓別人變得不
幸呢? 」
我的看法:
如果,禮真正最愛的人是健三,就這麼放走她,對健三、她、老師來講是不是太過殘忍?
在這個假設下,落跑新娘選擇了青梅竹馬是正確的,而別的影片中劈腿後選擇第三者也會
是正確的…
然而這裡有個問題是,禮怎麼知道自己最愛的人是誰呢!?禮又怎麼能預測結婚後對方會
不會變呢!?就像「給茱麗葉的信」片中的女主角,她有沒有想過:「眼前這個看似全心
聽我說話的人,在上床後就會變成跟現任男友一樣對她不再感興趣了!?這一切都無法預
測,所以我們無法立即判斷落跑新娘的對錯。
但若從女孩對人生下的賭注來看,我相信她的做法是對的!她判斷現任的男人不能給她想
要的愛,因此將賭注轉移到別人身上,至少還有機會中大獎呀!!當然這要冒著「發現比
現任更爛」的風險,總之,一個人對人生下了什麼賭注,哪有對錯之分呢…,而被背叛的
人呀,請願賭服輸吧…
結論:
我會尊重所有人的選擇,我也會願賭服輸,更重要的,我希望將來的自己成為最棒的大獎
,總是能在對方需要時給她溫暖,讓她開心,不会像「給茱麗葉的信」中男主角一樣,因
為工作,而冷落了生命中最重要的寶貝~
附上本片其他心得與網誌版:http://goo.gl/kLYtb
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